10 Keys to make your relationship strong
Everyone wants to be in a relationship so that won’t end up alone or because of the fear of missing those experiences. But, don’t be in any forceful relationship, proceed only when you know you are happy in it.
In today’s post, we will discuss 10 important keys which make a relationship stronger. This doesn’t only work for romantic relationships like Girlfriend & boyfriend or between husband & wife, but all the relations like friendship, parents, siblings.
Communicate Communicate Communicate:
Communication is very important in any relationship. No one will ever understand your feeling if you don’t speak about them. Assuming he/she will understand automatically mostly results in misunderstanding because of lack of information. This only will make your relationships bitter. Sometimes it’s hard to talk and the topic could be sensitive, but it’s okay to take your time and gather some courage. The longer you keep an important thing undiscussed, the harder it will get to talk about it. It’s never too late.
Speaking up at right time will definitely save your relationship. Communicating with another person will automatically solve half of your problem and also give you some confidence & trust in the opposite person. Just talk, even if you are sad, angry, anxious whatever, let another person know what you are feeling, this is especially important in romantic relations.
Some people are very clingy, they keep spying on their partners. This is a bad habit and will eventually ruin your relationship. Everyone deserves some privacy, even from your lover at times. If you believe your partner loves you, he/she won’t cheat on you. If you fear that they are not as interested as you are, talk about it openly and confront it. Spying on them is a deal-breaker.
The feeling you get when someone says “Hey darling, you can do it! Go for it” is irreplaceable. You definitely like it and it feels like you’re supported right, doesn’t it? Then why not motivate others. Encouraging another person will also help you to increase their trust in you.
Trust is a pillar of any relationship. You can not maintain any relationship without trust. If trust is absent then it’s no relation it’s just formality. Always trust another person with your full heart, but not blindly. Before trusting another person, trust yourself. Be ready if a person cheats you, it’s not your fault. Just trust yourself and if you think you can give it another chance go for it.
Always respect the opposite person, even if you disagree with them. Everyone is different, and each has their own beliefs, ethics & POV, always respect that. Just be yourself & let other’s be themselves. You can always try to change some things about another person, but it’s not necessary that person will change. You have to accept your partner the way they are and respect them.
Understand & become a good listener:
Sometimes it’s irritating when you try so hard to make your point, but an opposite person just ignores it. Now imagine the opposite, if someone agrees with you and understands you well, you will feel great & you will want to share more views and opinions with them.
The same applies to your partner, just try to understand the opposite person. It might not be completely aligned with your own views, and that’s ok. It may be difficult at first, but the gesture of trying will win a person’s heart.
Time is very important in this world, once it’s gone it’s gone forever and then you can not buy it with money. Make sure you spend quality time with your partner. Just being there with a person makes your relationship stronger with him. They can be sure that you will be always with him/her no matter what. You don’t have to be with someone physically, you can just call them or ping them. Just remind them that you are there with them, mentally.
Everyone says don’t expect more from people, it will hurt you. But there is nothing wrong with expectations, what is wrong is that don’t feel bad if someone doesn’t fulfill them. You can only expect from people whom you love or who are close to you. Never judge someone’s love from the fulfillment of your expectations. Because expectations may change, but the person & love towards him/her will never change.
You have to be really patient when you are with someone. For eg., another person may take time to open up, learn new things or understand your point of view, tell you something important about their life. Give them some time and don’t lose your temper.
Your partner may be going through a tough time, recognize this and cut them some slack for not being the best versions of themselves. Purposefully overlook bad behavior in such cases as they’re probably frustrated with something else not related to you. In time, a good person will realize they have been mean and will apologize to you. You also get brownie points for not getting frustrated by them when they were not their best. A good partner will value this attribute of yours.
You can incorporate all the above points and can make your relationship strong. Always think, how would you feel if you were in that situation by putting yourself in your partner’s shoes. This will help you win a bad situation.
I hope you liked this post. Thanks for reading.